Ella Ryder 33

Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?

Yes, I have many regulars. No, I wouldn’t feel cheated if they saw another girl because I don’t own anybody lol. I’m also reference friendly (I can’t stand when providers refuse to be a reference because it’s all about safety in my eyes and if a provider has a problem with another provider contacting her to ensure a client is safe to see, in my book she’s a horrible person.

How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?

The only thing I can’t stress enough is not to say anything risqué or explicit…. A lot of newbies make that mistake which is unfortunate.

If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?

If a client made me a present, anything is nice just because they took the time to make it so it’s speacial. My wishlist would be lingerie, gift cards and of course money lol

What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?

I’ve been told that I’m very personable. I try to make a connection because it makes things more enjoyable and I love repeat clients.

How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?

I don’t mind how a client makes the appointment, I do require screening…. It’s a must for me because I’m all about safety first.

Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?

I only get nervous if it’s my first time meeting them but I don’t think it shows whatsoever but I’m screaming inside lol.

What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?

Patience, enjoyment of sex, communication skills are a plus.

If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?

I’d suggest they start with an agency just so they can become familiar with the way things go. It’s how I learned enough to where I was able to become independent confidently.

What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?

At the moment I am working on starting my own non profit organization which I’m super excited about.

What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?

I refuse to see clients who don’t respect my boundaries.

What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?

To belly dance lol I’m sure I looked awesome jk!

Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?

I was with an agency and for my first “client” It was a multiple day appointment and I got to go to the Super Bowl (the one where the Giants and the Patriots played…. Great game)!

What did you want to be when you were growing up?

A neo natal nurse (working with newborn babies)

Has being an escort changed your view of men?

Nope, I’ve always had the same thoughts about men since I can remember. Most men are simple which I appreciate.

How long have you been working as an escort?

On and off for about 12 years but I’d say a total of 2 or 3 years because I’ve taken 9 years off

How did you get into the escort business?

Long story lol

What's the best bit about being an escort?

Being able to make as much, if not more than a Dr., Lawyer, etc.

What don't you like about being an escort?

It can be lonely at times since I don’t date while I’m in “the hobby”